🌑 Dating in 2025: Are You Loving a Narcissist… or a Warlock? A Haunting Modern Paranormal Cautionary Tale for Women Everywhere By J.A. Jackson
Dating in the year 2025 feels different. Not just because of apps, not because of DMs, not because of the endless TikTok advice from witches, healers, therapists, and survivors.
Something deeper is happening.
Women are waking up and saying:
“I wasn’t just dating a narcissist…
I think I was under a spell.”
And as wild as that sounds, thousands of women are sharing eerily similar stories: drained energy, lost finances, a stolen sense of self, broken intuition, and that strange fog that comes when a man charms you into silence.
Some call these men manipulators.
Some call them predators.
Some call them narcissists.
But on TikTok and across spiritual communities, a new phrase is gaining power:
“Warlock Energy.”
Not the broom-flying fantasy kind—
but the emotionally parasitic men who feel almost supernatural in their ability to mirror you, drain you, read you, and replace you.
Welcome to dating in 2025, where the line between narcissist and warlock feels thinner than a strand of hair—and twice as dangerous.
This is a paranormal-realism story woven with truth, warning, and the haunting magic of women’s intuition.
Let’s begin.
Chapter I – The First Sign: When Energy Speaks Before Words
Janelle always said she didn’t believe in magic—
not until she met him.
He wasn’t handsome in the usual sense, but he had a presence.
Like someone watching her from across a crowded room before she knew he was there.
His eyes found her first, and then the rest of him followed.
“Do I know you?” she asked.
“No,” he said, smiling.
“But I know you.”
That was the first sign.
Warlock-Narcissist energy pulls you in without permission.
You feel seen, exposed, and flattered all at once.
Women don’t always know the language for it—
but their bodies do.
Their intuition whispers:
Pay attention.
Most of us don’t.
Chapter II – The Mirroring Spell
A narcissist mirrors you.
A warlock mirrors your soul.
Within days, he knew Janelle’s favorite foods, fears, goals, childhood stories, and insecurities.
He laughed where she laughed.
He agreed where she agreed.
He finished her sentences.
He said scriptures that matched her hidden thoughts.
He talked like he prayed, but lived like he hunted.
“It’s like you can read my mind,” she said.
“I can,” he replied.
The mirroring spell feels like destiny—
but the truth?
They see your gifts so they can take them.
Chapter III – Drained: The Psychic Siphoning
A regular man is attracted to your body.
A warlock is attracted to your spirit.
It began slowly.
She felt tired after talking to him.
Then foggy.
Then anxious.
Then she stopped sleeping.
He kept her awake intentionally—talking, arguing, pulling energy.
A TikTok healer once said:
“A warlock will disturb your sleep so you can’t access your intuition.”
The less she slept, the weaker she became.
The weaker she became, the more he controlled.
This is the truth behind both warlocks and narcissists:
They weaken you so they can remake you in their image.
Chapter IV – Destiny Swapping: The Oldest Magic
A warlock-narcissist sees the light around you—
your talents, future, potential, influence, blessings.
And he wants them.
He moves into your home.
Drains your finances.
Breaks your confidence.
Pauses your goals.
Replaces your identity.
Isolates you.
Until you wake up asking:
“How did my life become his life?”
This is destiny swapping—emotionally real, spiritually described, psychologically powerful.
“He didn’t just want to love me,” women say.
“He wanted to be me.”
Chapter V – The Haunting Escape
Leaving a narcissist or a warlock is not a breakup—
it’s an escape.
Below are the real-world + spiritual steps women use to break free:
1. Reclaim Your Sleep
Sleep restores intuition.
Sleep deprivation destroys defenses.
Turn off your phone.
Block during sleep hours.
Use meditation or prayer.
2. Break the Mirror
Stop feeding him information.
No emotional updates.
No long explanations.
No defending yourself.
Silence shatters his spell.
3. Document Everything
Screenshots.
Emails.
Bank records.
Loan documents.
Police call logs.
Useful for:
DV restraining orders
Elder abuse claims
Fraud reports
Consumer complaints
DA filings
4. File a Report—No Permission Needed
You may report to:
State Attorney General
FTC IdentityTheft.gov
Local police fraud units
County District Attorney Victim Services
CalVCB (Victim Compensation Board)
Real Estate Licensing Board
Mortgage Licensing Agency
State Bar Complaint Portal
Abuse without physical violence is still abuse.
5. Cut The Cord (Psychic + Practical)
No contact.
No response.
No closure.
No arguing.
If communication is required:
Use the Grey Rock Method.
6. Return the Energy
Release ritual:
Write his name.
Write what he took.
Write:
“I release your control. This connection is broken.”
Sign it.
Burn it.
Scatter the ashes.
Your subconscious will listen.
7. Rebuild Your Circle
Friends.
Family.
Support groups.
Therapy.
Prayer.
Journaling.
A warlock isolates you.
You must reverse the spell.
Chapter VI – The Return of Power
Healing feels strange at first.
Quiet.
Empty.
New.
But after sleep, after silence, after breaking the spell—
intuition returns.
“You survived. Now rise.”
She laughed again.
Walked again.
Read again.
Breathed again.
A woman who returns to herself is stronger than any spell.
Chapter VII – Dating in 2025: What Women Must Know
Toxic men now use psychology, spirituality, manifestation, and religion—not to grow, but to manipulate.
Signs of a Narcissist
• Love bombs
• Controls finances
• Lies easily
• Gaslights
• Blames you
• Demands admiration
• Uses your empathy against you
Signs of Warlock Energy
• Drains energy
• Disturbs sleep
• Mirrors instantly
• Feels “too familiar”
• Uses religion to manipulate
• Reads you psychologically
• Obsessed with your potential
When to Leave
• You feel watched
• You feel drained
• You feel confused
• You lose confidence
• You stop trusting yourself
• You cry more than you laugh
Your intuition is not lying.
Final Chapter – The Woman Who Woke Up
This is Janelle’s story.
And the story of countless women.
You were not weak.
You were targeted because you are strong.
A narcissist wants control.
A warlock wants your destiny.
But neither can win
when you awaken.
So if something inside you whispers:
“This is me.”
Then it is time.
Time to rise.
Time to reclaim your destiny.
Because no man—
narcissist or warlock—
can steal what a woman chooses to take back.

